I was sitting in the library, procrastinating on Facebook as usual before I actually sit down and do work, when a woman came up to me. Very nicely, she said, “Excuse me, do know which way is North, and which way is East? I wasn’t a hundred percent sure, but I told her the directions I thought they were, and let her know I wasn’t completely certain. She didn’t seem too worried about it, and asked, “Do you mind if I pray here?” I didn’t mind at all and said, “Of course, go right ahead.” And that was the end of it, so I thought.
I started thinking about it and said to myself, Wow, that was really considerate of her to ask….. Wait a second. Why should she have to ask? She wasn’t encroaching on my space, we were a few feet apart, and wouldn’t cause a bother to anyone.
The more I thought about it, the more confused I was. Why, as Americans, can we accept the most annoying things as commonplace, yet a woman felt she needed to ask *my* permission if she could honor her God in my mere presence. This makes me feel both sad and angry. Sad, because why should someone have to ASK to do something that would/should not affect anyone else around her just because it is religious in nature and she is a Muslim? No Christian or Jew would feel the need to ask to cross themselves, or throw a hebrew prayer out.
I’m Angry because as Americans, we always preach equality, and freedom, yet those freedoms are limited to only those like us. Why? Is our entire culture a hypocrisy of the foundation our forefathers built for us? I just can’t believe that the people I most of the time feel so proud of, could be like this. Maybe I was naive to think this way, but the inequalities are just staring right in my face now.
If Americans are so great, so understanding, so free, why don’t we grant the same freedoms to ALL of the people in this country. Now, this could go one of two ways. de facto, and de juro. By law, yes these people have the freedom to practice their religion. But socially, culturally, do they have all of the freedoms we do? I don’t think so, not anymore. The more I look into the subject, the more I am convinced. The fact that they even need to ask if I feel comfortable for them to pray near me says two things: One, she *is* very considerate, to ask. Because I wouldn’t have. And two, She shouldn’t have to ask. Period. Ever. Unless it would cause a disruption to the people around her. in which case, she can ask, but I would still do it even if they said no–unless there was a viable alternative.
This has just got me thinking. Something needs to be done. Raising awareness that all people are equal. Or maybe nothing can be done, and it’s all a personal thing, that everyone individually needs to work on. I’m not sure.
Maybe I’m just naive for thinking everyone is equal, no matter who they are? I never thought of it as a radical notion, but I’m beginning to feel like it is thrown around in theory a lot more than it is in practice.
Just a few thoughts of mine today.